My bf calls me at least once a week worried about his job security. He goes online and sees posts for his position in a similar area, and assumes that they are for him and that he is about to be fired. Then he sees that some people are having closed door meetings, so again it must be about replacing HIM. Meanwhile, he thinks all of the work he does is jsut the best EVER, and how stupid are these * clowns for asking for corrections and revisions?
I am just so sick of dealing with his misery. I have tried to tell him that hes being paranoid, that there are a lot of other companies he might be looking at, ive told him to confront his boss, ive told him to be nicer to people, if people want to do a project different then it isnt automatically WRONG... I have also told him that if he isnt happy then he should do something else.
I am sick of trying to think up ways to make him feel better. Clearly he is the problem as he has had this issue with other employers. How can i shut him up?